Remember, that the only way to attract these desires into your reality and into your experience is to focus your thoughts on them. But focusing your thoughts is about half the battle. The other half is determining how you feel about these desires. You see, your emotions are your guidance in all of this. Didn't think you could control your emotions, did you? In a sense that is true. Emotions are what they are. Sadness is sadness, anger is anger, resentment is resentment. What you can control is not their existence, but their occurrence in your experiences. If something happens which is not to your liking, many of you react with anger, resentment, frustration and many other negative emotions. That is reaction without thought. That is reaction without deliberate control over your emotions.