If the life you're living is unsatisfactory, you've been sending out mixed messages---conducting multiple simultaneous phone conversations with the Universe (not to mention talkin' smack). If change is what you're after, you need to unify your broadcast and quit muddying up the signals with thoughts that contradict your preferences. It's not so much what you need to do as it is what you need to stop doing. The experience of happiness, love and abundance is actually the default Life design. It's already available. You just need to clean out the debris that's blocking your view.