Allowing yourself to become what life has caused you to desire is not about action. It is about the aligning of thought Energies. It is about focusing your attention in the direction of your desire rather than looking back at the current conditions that have given birth to your desire. And while you may very well eventually become inspired to some action, it is the alignment of thought Energy (a vibrational alignment) that you are seeking.
When you achieve vibrational alignment, any inspired action will feel wonderful.
Without the vibrational alignment, any action taken will feel difficult.
With the vibrational alignment, your every effort will yield wonderful results or return on your time.
Without the vibrational alignment, the outcome of your effort will be disappointing, resulting in discouragement as you conclude, "This just doesn’t work for me."